It is natural for all genders to want a companion. For a man, there are a million things you could do to woo a lady. From being physically attractive to street smart, everything counts in creating a surpass-able impression on a woman.
Even though treating a lady to some skillfully executed foreplay turns her on, a few of the biggest turn ons are the most laid back non-sexual things that you do. Seeing a man in his element is a really big turn on. So buckle up guys and do the following things more often to please your woman!
Here is a list of top 10 things that men do that turn women on:
The way to a lady’s heart, like men, is also through her stomach. You don’t have to necessarily cook her a grand meal. Although, that would win you some pretty good brownie points. For those amateur chefs, burning the house down won’t help. Stick to easy things and take up some cooking classes if you want to. Surprise your counterpart with some breakfast in bed or a home-cooked candle light dinner.
Not just that, you could also cook with your woman. You won’t know it, but it will definitely increase your sexy quotient.
2.BEING PASSIONATE ABOUT YOUR GOAL
Your ambition speaks a lot about your character. A man who is passionate about what he does is a major turn on for women. This doesn’t mean that you always talk about work. But being ambitious or having a goal, and busting your brains in achieving it is what we women find hot. It makes you seem like you have control over your life and finances. It also makes women feel secure about taking the relationship to the next level, because it shows your commitment level.
3.TAKE THE LEAD(DECISIVENESS)
Nothing is hotter than a man taking the lead. It makes you look confident and strong. Women want to date leaders. Although, if you do take control of every situation, get ready for the woman to leave you. What women like is a man who steps into a sticky situation with exuding confidence, when needed and helps resolve the problem.
When it comes to making decisions, a joint decision is what you should prefer. But with the small things like deciding a movie of the same interest, or ordering in some food, this is something you could do to gain bonus points. Also, when the lady is PMSing or menstruating, giving her chocolates or treating her with a back massage is good too! It shows that you care about her.
4.DEALING WITH CAR BREAKDOWN ON HIS OWN
One of the major turn on is when a man knows how to fix a car or a vehicle when it doesn’t work. Rolling up those sleeves and bunching those abs makes them swoon right into your arms. “Handy” Men are attractive to women. Period. Doesn’t matter if you are a carpenter or a painter, a man who has the knowledge and skills to fix broken things make you attractive. It shows your woman that you can be her “Knight in shining armor”, when she wants you to.
Women are attracted to men who take care of themselves, their skin, their style and their dressing sense. You don’t have to spend huge money into gaining it. But you may have to pay more attention to your skin, the way you dress and style yourself.
No woman wants to feel like she is kissing a caveman. Make sure to keep the facial hair well groomed. Grooming is also a part of your hygiene. Having good hygiene is also a turn on. Men with brown or yellow teeth look creepy.
A well groomed man doesn’t just look clean and neat, but also exudes confidence and strength, which is attractive.
6.SENSE OF HUMOUR
Funny guys are always fun. Making a lady laugh or giggle, instantly makes you more attractive to her. It also makes for fun, interesting and entertaining conversations. If you have a sense of humour, that also means that you can lighten up a tense situation. It requires you to be creative, observant and social, which makes you the center of your woman’s attention.
Although, you have to be sarcastic and witty, without coming off as obnoxious. Be the smart and cheerful guy you are when you are with her, and she will love it!
7.BAD BOY MINDSET(BAD BOY +GENTLEMAN)
Women like a man who gives out bad boy vibes. But you still need to be a gentleman when required. It is all about striking the right balance between the both. Women are drawn to men who are intimidating to others. They are also attracted to men who are leaders and always in control. Bear in mind, this does not mean they want to be controlled. Your kind and gentle attitude inspires confidence in women. Also, a bad boy vibe makes you seem like you have sexual prowess.
8.BEING GOOD AROUND KIDS & PETS
There is nothing more hot and sexy than a guy who knows how to carry and take care of a baby or a pet. Having them around makes the women know you are domestic. They bring out your soft side and women just swoon over it. As macho as you are, doing this more often subconsciously makes women know they can come to you for comfort. And if this doesn’t boost your ego, I don’t know what will.
9.WHEN TALKING ABOUT LOVE FOR HIS MOTHER
The way you talk about or treat your mother shows women, how you would treat them in the future. A man who doesn’t respect his mother is not someone a lady would date. A healthy relationship with your mother, is very comforting to a woman. It shows the depth of your character. When you talk about your mother, you give out a sensitive vibe. It also makes you seem well-mannered (at least most of them) and reveals your feminine side, which makes you more trustworthy to women.
There is however a limit to this, men who are over sensitive give out insecure vibes, which is a major turnoff to women.
The very obvious but important criteria is your physical fitness level. Women are mostly attracted to men who are built and taller than them. Physical fitness is important otherwise too, for a long, healthy and happy life. Women don’t expect you to have six or eight packs, they love you anyway. But making an effort to look better for yourself, that is what we find sexy.
While you are at it, pay attention to your dressing style too. Women like their men well-dressed and presentable at all times.
There are many things you may do wrong. However, be confident and keep up the charm. Don’t let a turnoff bring you down. Remember, every woman is different and unique. Get to know her, and give her your complete attention, and you will definitely stay her in good books.